🛡️Connection & words · Managing fears and safety

Loud noises overwhelm them

Sound familiar?Fears and courage

Seeing them cover their ears and shrink from a noise...

The tamer of roars

What you’re living

A loud noise — the hairdryer, thunder, firecrackers — completely undoes them and they cover their ears and scream.

The emotional layer

What your child practices

Your little one learns they can make the noise smaller: cover their ears, breathe and know it will pass

The hairdryer roars, the vacuum roars, the thunder roars, and the main character whole body shrinks. They learn to be a tamer of roars: they cannot make the noise vanish, but they can cover their ears, breathe deeply and remember that every roar ends. Little by little they discover how long each one lasts and that they stay whole when it passes. The roar does not go silent, but it grows small when they know what to expect.

How it’s personalized

It’s not a generic story with a name on top. Each answer really changes something in the tale:

Their name

Your child is the hero: their name appears in the story and in the narration.

Their age (2-3 or 4-6)

The text adapts: shorter, concrete sentences for little ones; a touch more nuance for older kids.

What they love

Their interests (dinosaurs, the sea, trains…) weave into the story so they stay hooked.

The situation you live

You pick the exact moment that triggers the overwhelm at home: the story starts there, not in a generic example.

How they show the feeling

Whether they shout, drop to the floor or shut down: the hero lives it in a similar way, so they recognise themselves.

The situation you live, for example: the hairdryer or the vacuum starts · there is a thunderstorm · firecrackers or fireworks go off · a noisy place overwhelms them · a motorbike or roadwork starts nearby.

The phrase they keep

«The noise roars. I breathe. It grows small.»

How this Moment is built

We do not apply a universal arc. This situation has a specific narrative recipe: Agency and safety.

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    Chosen situation

    Loud noises overwhelm them

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    Skill

    Your little one learns they can make the noise smaller: cover their ears, breathe and know it will pass

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    Need

    We read behaviour as a signal and identify the need this recipe may support, without turning that working hypothesis into a diagnosis.

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    Tilo recipe

    Agency and safety. Uses plain language, hears a bodily boundary or preference, identifies a safe adult or accommodation and practises one direct phrase. It does not infer a diagnosis from behaviour or aim to normalise, cure or inspire pity.

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    Shared anchors

    The phrase shown in the catalogue is “The noise roars. I breathe. It grows small.”. The final recipe also fixes the adult phrase, child phrase, main response and home practice.

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    Complete Moment

    The same recipe coordinates the illustrated story, narration, song, activity and family guide.

Five pieces, one consistent message

The anchors are checked across all five pieces. If one changes, the complete Moment is reviewed so it never gives mixed instructions.

The pedagogical why

Oversensitivity to certain noises is real and common. Anticipating the sound, giving a sense of control (earplugs, covering ears, stepping out) and predictability (knowing it will end) reduces distress better than forcing them to put up with it.

Source: Research on sensory processing (Miller et al.); predictability and control principles

Grounded in developmental psychology and citable sources. It does not replace a professional’s assessment; if anything worries you, talk to your paediatrician.

What you get

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    The illustrated story with their name and your exact situation at the centre of the tale

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    The audio story in a single warm voice, to listen to without a screen

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    The Moment’s song, made to measure for this same situation

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    The guided activity to practise the skill through play, with everyday things

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    The family guide: the need underneath, and the exact words for the hard moment

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Practise it through play

🔊 The box of sounds

Tame the roars by starting quiet and letting them be in charge

See the activity

Loud noises overwhelm them

Gives them control and predictability with noise (cover, breathe, know it will pass) instead of being overwhelmed.

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