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Dramas when turning off the screen

Sound familiar?Big changes

That daily standoff to turn off the tablet without drama...

I want to keep going, and it is time to stop

What you’re living

Every time the screen has to go off a huge tantrum erupts, they ask for five more minutes nonstop and it all ends in a fight.

The emotional layer

What your child practices

Your child learns to stay with the frustration when something enjoyable ends, without the limit having to change before they can settle

The episode ends and the main character wants more. The adult names the ending, offers a closed choice and holds the limit without arguing. Anger is allowed; hurting or throwing is not. No trick makes the feeling vanish: the adult stays available, respects a refusal of touch and waits for the child to reconnect. Later they rehearse other small endings with Tilo.

How it’s personalized

It’s not a generic story with a name on top. Each answer really changes something in the tale:

Their name

Your child is the hero: their name appears in the story and in the narration.

Their age (2-3 or 4-6)

The text adapts: shorter, concrete sentences for little ones; a touch more nuance for older kids.

What they love

Their interests (dinosaurs, the sea, trains…) weave into the story so they stay hooked.

The situation you live

You pick the exact moment that triggers the overwhelm at home: the story starts there, not in a generic example.

How they show the feeling

Whether they shout, drop to the floor or shut down: the hero lives it in a similar way, so they recognise themselves.

The situation you live, for example: the TV or tablet has to be turned off · they ask for five more minutes without end · they throw a tantrum when the screen is taken away · the switch from screen to bath or dinner · they want a screen right before bed.

The phrase they keep

«I don't like it, but I can do it.»

How this Moment is built

We do not apply a universal arc. This situation has a specific narrative recipe: Limit or overwhelm.

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    Chosen situation

    Dramas when turning off the screen

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    Skill

    Your child learns to stay with the frustration when something enjoyable ends, without the limit having to change before they can settle

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    Need

    We read behaviour as a signal and identify the need this recipe may support, without turning that working hypothesis into a diagnosis.

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    Tilo recipe

    Limit or overwhelm. Anticipates the concrete ending, validates while holding the limit, offers a closed choice and follows through without imposing support. It separates feelings from harmful behaviour and reconnects in the child's time. No trick erases the discomfort, and breathing, hugs or a repeated phrase are never compulsory.

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    Shared anchors

    The phrase shown in the catalogue is “I don't like it, but I can do it.”. The final recipe also fixes the adult phrase, child phrase, main response and home practice.

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    Complete Moment

    The same recipe coordinates the illustrated story, narration, song, activity and family guide.

Five pieces, one consistent message

The anchors are checked across all five pieces. If one changes, the complete Moment is reviewed so it never gives mixed instructions.

The pedagogical why

At the emotional peak, the adult holds a clear limit with few words, validates the wish and offers help without forcing it. Predictability and consistency help; the aim is not to prevent all protest, but to practise moving through discomfort without making the limit disappear.

Source: Samantha, real review of Leo wants more cartoons (2026-07-09); AAP HealthyChildren, Screen Time & Temper Tantrums

Grounded in developmental psychology and citable sources. It does not replace a professional’s assessment; if anything worries you, talk to your paediatrician.

What you get

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    The illustrated story with their name and your exact situation at the centre of the tale

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    The audio story in a single warm voice, to listen to without a screen

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    The Moment’s song, made to measure for this same situation

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    The guided activity to practise the skill through play, with everyday things

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    The family guide: the need underneath, and the exact words for the hard moment

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Practise it through play

📴 Practising small endings

Rehearse with Tilo that something ends and the limit stays

See the activity

Dramas when turning off the screen

Practises moving through frustration with an available adult, without turning protest into negotiation or rewarding the absence of tears.

This proposal is not for sale yet: Samantha must approve the complete Moment and all six languages.