Their name
Your child is the hero: their name appears in the story and in the narration.
Jealousy of the new sibling
Sound familiar?With others
That and what about me on their little face when you hold the baby...
The heart that stretches
What you’re living
Since the baby arrived they have got jealous and demanding, they have gone back on things they already did, and I do not know how to make room for both.
The emotional layer
What your child practices
Your little one discovers that mum or dad heart stretches to love two, without taking anything away from them
The baby arrives and the main character feels their throne taken: now they have to wait, share arms, and something shrinks inside. A grown-up teaches them a secret of the heart: it does not split into pieces to love two, it stretches and makes more room, and they still have their whole place. With moments that are just theirs and big-sibling jobs, they discover that love did not divide: it grew.
How it’s personalized
It’s not a generic story with a name on top. Each answer really changes something in the tale:
Their age (2-3 or 4-6)
The text adapts: shorter, concrete sentences for little ones; a touch more nuance for older kids.
What they love
Their interests (dinosaurs, the sea, trains…) weave into the story so they stay hooked.
The situation you live
You pick the exact moment that triggers the overwhelm at home: the story starts there, not in a generic example.
How they show the feeling
Whether they shout, drop to the floor or shut down: the hero lives it in a similar way, so they recognise themselves.
The situation you live, for example: a little sibling is about to arrive · the baby is born and everything changes · they feel the baby takes their place · they start acting like a younger child again · the baby soaks up the visitors attention.
The phrase they keep
«The baby is here. I am still yours. The heart stretches.»
How this Moment is built
We do not apply a universal arc. This situation has a specific narrative recipe: Change and belonging.
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Chosen situation
Jealousy of the new sibling
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Skill
Your little one discovers that mum or dad heart stretches to love two, without taking anything away from them
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Need
We read behaviour as a signal and identify the need this recipe may support, without turning that working hypothesis into a diagnosis.
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Tilo recipe
Change and belonging. Names the change truthfully, lets mixed feelings coexist, shows what connection remains and offers a concrete role or ritual. The ending neither erases the loss nor promises that everything will stay the same.
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Shared anchors
The phrase shown in the catalogue is “The baby is here. I am still yours. The heart stretches.”. The final recipe also fixes the adult phrase, child phrase, main response and home practice.
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Complete Moment
The same recipe coordinates the illustrated story, narration, song, activity and family guide.
Five pieces, one consistent message
The anchors are checked across all five pieces. If one changes, the complete Moment is reviewed so it never gives mixed instructions.
The pedagogical why
A new sibling stirs up attachment; regression and jealousy are normal. Preparing the child, reserving individual time, giving them a valued role and not comparing protects the bond and reduces rivalry.
Source: AAP HealthyChildren, Preparing Your Child for a New Sibling; Laurie Kramer, individual time
Grounded in developmental psychology and citable sources. It does not replace a professional’s assessment; if anything worries you, talk to your paediatrician.
What you get
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The illustrated story with their name and your exact situation at the centre of the tale
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The audio story in a single warm voice, to listen to without a screen
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The Moment’s song, made to measure for this same situation
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The guided activity to practise the skill through play, with everyday things
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The family guide: the need underneath, and the exact words for the hard moment
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Practise it through play
🫶 The just-us time
A daily moment that is only theirs, with a name of its own
Jealousy of the new sibling
Dismantles the fear of losing their place with the idea of a heart that stretches and with guaranteed individual time.
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