Emotional regulation
They give up and blow up at the first mistake
The tower that falls and rises again
Your little one learns that a mistake is not the end: they can breathe and try again a little smaller
Personalized stories for 4 years old
A selection of Tilo catalogue challenges that often appear around 4 years old, with the rhythm adapted to this stage.
How the Moment adapts
Más diálogo: el niño verbaliza pensamiento ("no puedo"), el adulto reestructura suave ("que se caiga no significa que no puedas: significa que se cayó").
Common challenges at this stage
Emotional regulation
They cannot handle losing
The medal for trying again
Your little one learns to lose without falling apart: breathe, congratulate the other player and ask for another round
Emotional regulation
Jealousy that eats them up
The candle that lights another candle
Your little one discovers that love is not shared out or used up: lighting another candle does not blow out their own
Sleep and rest
Fears that appear when the light goes off
The hunter of friendly shadows
Your little one learns to look closely at what scares them at night and to discover that it is almost always friendly
Sleep and rest
Nightmares that break the night
The river that carries bad dreams away
Your little one learns to tell the bad dream and let it go, understanding that a dream cannot hurt them
Managing fears and safety
The dark paralyses them
The guardian of the night
Your little one discovers they can be the guardian of their room: with a small light and some breathing, the fear of the dark grows smaller
Managing fears and safety
Panic at the doctor
The body detective
Your little one faces the medical check-up as a brave detective who helps look after their body
Social skills
They struggle to make friends
The key to join the game
Your little one learns three key phrases to approach and join in play with other children
Social skills
Jealousy of the new sibling
The heart that stretches
Your little one discovers that mum or dad heart stretches to love two, without taking anything away from them
Adapting to change
First-day-of-school anxiety
The backpack of courage
Your little one learns to carry calm inside an invisible backpack on the first day of school
Body and personal boundaries
They worry about everything
The balloon of what-ifs
Your little one learns to blow the worry out and take a small step towards what they fear, instead of avoiding it
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Emotional regulation
Big emotions
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Sleep and rest
At bedtime
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Managing fears and safety
Fears and courage
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Social skills
With others
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Autonomy and confidence
I can do it
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Adapting to change
Big changes
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Body and personal boundaries
My body and my boundaries
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